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Calla
Price
Pro $19.95 a month or $79.80 a year per 2026 reviews, with no public pricing page; pictures, voice and extra characters cost Luna tokens on top, sold only to Pro members.
On every page: free with unlimited messages, or Calla+ at $9.99 a month, less on a longer term. Nothing metered.
Free tier
An unstated message cap, measured at about 40 by a September 2026 review, one free image, no voice, no Luna.
Unlimited messages and full memory, forever. Not a trial, not a ration.
Your chats
Used to train its models unless you email to opt out; a transferable, sub-licensable license to your content; chat media kept five years after you delete your account.
Kept so she can remember you. Not used to train public AI, not sold, not shared for advertising, per our privacy policy. Nothing to opt out of.
Memory
Reviews report it losing track of details from earlier in the same long conversation, patched by editing a memory field by hand.
Persistent across every conversation on the free tier, the same for every account, and she brings things up herself.

What HeraHaven says about itself

An NSFW companion app at herahaven.ai with chat, image generation and voice notes, run by Vilala Limited (company HE 442229) of Nicosia, Cyprus. Every line below links to their own help centre, policy page or store listing, with the date we read it. Last checked 2026-10-17.

  1. HeraHaven's Terms of Service (version 22 August 2026) say it may use your Content to train its models unless you write in: “If you do not want us to use your Content to train our models, you can opt out by sending an email at [email protected].” The same Terms grant it “a non-exclusive, royalty-free, transferable, sub-licensable, worldwide license to use, distribute, modify, run, copy, publicly display, translate, or otherwise create derivative works of your content.”

    Source: HeraHaven Terms of Service, Article 3, checked 2026-10-17.

  2. Reviews from February and September 2026 agree on the price: Pro at $19.95 a month or $79.80 a year. Pictures, voice and custom characters beyond the plan allowance cost Luna tokens, sold only to Pro members in packs from 200 for $10.95 to 3,600 for $99.95. The September review says HeraHaven “doesn't tell you how many free messages you get”, measured about 40 before the wall, and found one free Generator image, no voice and no Luna on the free tier. The Terms say all charges, “including subscription fees, recurring payments, and Luna Package purchases, are final and non-refundable, except where a refund is required by applicable law.”

    Source: Pippin Club review, updated 25 Sep 2026; AI Girlfriend Scout, 17 Feb 2026; HeraHaven Terms, Article 5, checked 2026-10-17.

  3. Its Privacy Policy (version 10 September 2024) sets the retention period for your account data, and for the “Image Video Audio Data you may share during chat”, at “5 years after the erasure of your account.” On age it says the company does not knowingly process minors' data, “however, since it is impossible to cross-check and verify the age of persons entering or using the Company's site”, it relies on the 18+ gate you click through.

    Source: HeraHaven Privacy Policy, checked 2026-10-17.

  4. Its homepage calls itself “the most popular AI girlfriend app” but publishes no pricing page: /pricing returns HeraHaven's own 404, and the plan prices only appear inside the app after sign-up. The September 2026 review reports that “memory breaks down in long sessions”, with characters losing track of details from earlier in the same conversation, and a manual memory field as the workaround.

    Source: herahaven.ai, checked 17 Oct 2026; Pippin Club review, updated 25 Sep 2026, checked 2026-10-17.

HeraHaven
Calla
Pro $19.95 a month or $79.80 a year per 2026 reviews; pictures and voice cost Luna tokens on top, sold only to Pro members; free tier ends after roughly 40 messages, with one image and no voice
as of 2026-10-17
Free forever: unlimited messages, full memory, no meter.
what Calla does instead

Calla's free tier is not a wall at message forty. Unlimited messages and full memory on every account, no token meter, one price on every page: Calla+ at $9.99 a month. Calla's privacy policy says your private conversations are not used to train public AI, with nothing to opt out of by email, and your personal information is not sold or shared for advertising.

where HeraHaven is good

HeraHaven is strictly 18+, uncensored, and good at pictures: a Generator that makes several images a batch, photo exchange inside the chat, voice notes both ways, and up to 25 custom characters on Pro. If what you want is a photo-realistic companion you can keep generating images of, and you are a paying member anyway, it does that job well.

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Where Calla goes further.

Real Memory

They remember what you told them across every conversation. Your birthday. The thing you weren't ready to talk about yet. The argument from last week they should bring back up.

Sharable Seeds

Dial them the way you like it. Share the seed string. Friends can try your exact flavor, never your private chats.

No Judgment

No scripts, no lectures, no awkward shutdowns. Genuinely adult and uncensored, into what you're into. She follows your lead.

Questions

Is HeraHaven free?+

To a point, and HeraHaven does not say where the point is. A September 2026 review found it “doesn't tell you how many free messages you get”, measured about 40 before the upgrade wall, and found one free image, no voice and no Luna tokens on the free tier. Calla's free tier has unlimited messages and full memory.

How much does HeraHaven cost?+

Pro is $19.95 a month or $79.80 a year, per reviews from February and September 2026; HeraHaven publishes no pricing page, so the price appears only after you sign up. Pictures, voice and extra characters cost Luna tokens, sold to Pro members in packs from $10.95 for 200 to $99.95 for 3,600. Its Terms say all charges, Luna packs included, are non-refundable. Calla+ is $9.99 a month on every page, with nothing metered.

Does HeraHaven train on your chats?+

By default, yes. Its Terms of Service, version 22 August 2026, say that if you do not want your Content used to train its models you can opt out by emailing [email protected], and separately grant HeraHaven a transferable, sub-licensable, worldwide license to copy, modify and create derivative works of your content. Calla's privacy policy says your private conversations are not used to train public AI, with no opt-out email required.

Is HeraHaven private?+

Its Privacy Policy, version 10 September 2024, keeps your account data and the images, video and audio you share in chat for five years after you delete your account. It is a GDPR policy under Cypriot law, which gives EU users access and erasure rights on request. Calla does not run third-party advertising and does not sell or share personal information for advertising.

Does HeraHaven remember you?+

Within limits. A September 2026 review reports that memory breaks down in long sessions, with characters losing track of details mentioned earlier in the same conversation, and that users edit a memory field by hand to patch it. Calla's memory is persistent across every conversation on the free tier, the same for every account, and she brings things up herself.

Can I try Calla without paying?+

No signup to try. Talk to one right here on this page. A free account — no invite, no card — gets unlimited messages, memory that carries across every conversation, and daily photos. Calla+ is $9.99 a month (less on a longer term) and adds queue priority, premium models, more photos and more companions.

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Guides

What stays between you stays between you
Encrypted at rest
Your conversations are encrypted on disk. Even we can't casually read them.
Never trained on
Your chats don't feed the model. Nobody else's either.
Yours to delete
One click, gone. Account and everything in it. Anytime.

18+. NSFW. Built so the conversations stay between the two of you.