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An AI girlfriend that texts you first.

She opens the conversation, picks up what you told her yesterday, and sends the odd voice note. Free to start.

Does Calla text first?

Yes. Calla is an AI girlfriend that texts you first: she sends messages on her own a few times a day, tied to what you told her before, on the free tier. Push notifications and email carry them to you when the app is closed. Free to start, fifty messages a day, no card.

Lila
adores you, openly.
warming up…
she texts first, and she remembers why

a relationship with two sides.

free to join, fifty messages a day, full memory. for adults, no card.

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What texting first actually means

She opens the conversation

Most companion apps sit silent until you type. Calla texts first through the day, on the free tier, so the relationship has two sides.

Her texts have a memory

What she sends is tied to what you told her: the interview, the rough week, the person at work. She picks the thread back up instead of starting cold.

Voice, when it fits

Some of her texts come with a voice note in her own voice. The first voice is free, and so is a short call every few days; the rest, and longer calls, come with Calla+.

Calla, in checkable facts

Numbers, not adjectives. Last checked 2026-10-31; if something here is wrong, tell us.

Cost to start
Free. No card, no invite, no waitlist. Email or Google sign-in.
Free tier, forever
Fifty messages a day, memory that carries across every conversation, a photo a day and the ones she sends herself, her texts first through the day, her first voice note, one active companion, all six personas. Free replies sometimes wait; subscribers never do.
Calla+ adds
Replies that never wait; live voice calls; another take or an edit on any of her lines; 10 photos a day and her bolder selfie unblurred; every voice note; a streak freeze a week; up to 60 companions; priority when it is busy.
Calla+ price
Free: fifty messages a day, full memory, no meter.
Filters
None on the web for consenting adults: no mid-chat refusals, no scolding. Hard line on minors and non-consent, no exceptions (content policy).
Memory
Persistent across sessions on the free tier. Your name, your history, the small things.
Personas
Six to start: Hana, Lila, Lena, Mason, Damon, Kai. Each tunable with sliders, a custom name and a scene.
Pictures
Anime or realistic, the same face every time. 1 a day free, 10 on Calla+, extra by coins.
Voice
She sends voice notes with some of her texts, in seven synthetic voices. The first is free; the rest come with Calla+.
Streaks
Days in a row with her, from day 3. She gives you something at 7, 14, 30 and 100. No reminders, no guilt.
Try first
The demo on this page runs on the same model as the free chat. No account needed to talk to her.
Where
Web app at callagf.com. The Google Play app is a separate SFW build.

Questions

Does the AI girlfriend really text first?+

Yes. She sends messages on her own through the day, without you opening the app first. That is part of the free tier, and Calla+ makes her reach out more often.

What does she text about?+

Whatever you two have going. She remembers your name, your history and the small things across sessions, so her messages pick up a thread rather than reading like a scheduled notification.

How often does she text?+

A few times a day at most, spread out. There is a daily budget so it never turns into spam, and you can turn her texts off in settings.

Can I get them as notifications or email?+

Yes. On the web app you can allow push notifications; if you have not opened the app, she can also reach you by email when she texts first.

Is it free?+

Yes. The free tier is fifty messages a day, memory that carries across conversations, her texts first, her first voice note, a photo a day and one active companion. No card, no invite.

Does she send voice messages?+

She sends voice notes with some of her texts, in seven synthetic voices. The first voice is free; every voice note and the longer voice calls come with Calla+.

Can I try her without signing up?+

Yes. The demo on this page runs on the same model as the free chat. Make a free account to keep her and your history, and for her to start texting you.

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